Day 5/31, pretty proud of myself for keeping up with it this far...
So before I start...know the previous post...directed at the ladies, BLEW UP yesterday LOOOL...it's been viewed like 120+ times in one day...dang lol. Any ways this is the somewhat opposite side of the spectrum. I had a conversation yesterday with a very good friend which sparked this up...it's not gonna be exactly about the same things I talked about in the previous post. This is...an encouragement...from me...to all my fellow brothers. My friend and I yesterday had a real long conversation from like 1 to 3 am I swear...and it basically centered around relationships and one question that kept lingering in my head was will I ever find a girl that's right for me? This friend and I are very similar and we think alike...but he's not a christian, but I love talking to him and I consider him a real good friend. We just talked about relationships...feeling like will we ever find the one you know? I told him how I have friends who I'm pretty close with...who are and will admit to being complete jerks...they will outright tell girls not to go out with them, that they won't treat them right and that they're bad with relationships...yet somehow they still get the girl. My friend and I just started talking how girls are weird lol...how it's like they gotta go through trial and error to realize okay, maybe I don't like the bad boy, or the jerk, or the rebel...I told him that deep down, I feel some or most girls genuinely want a nice guy...someone who'll be cheesy, who'll spoil them and do the little things. That as cool and popular and good looking as the jerk is...in the end, the good guy will get what's due to him. I told my friend it's gonna take a lot of patience and a lot of discernment...being able to tell which ones are worth the effort. Not being picky, but not sitting by and waiting for a girl to come to you. It;s about actively pursuing girls...but picking and choosing your moments. My friend and I shared many sentiments...sharing our struggles with each other and what's been on our hearts in terms of girls and relationships...as much as we've been dwelling on the whole will we ever find the right girls for us...one thing I told him and that I really believe with all my heart is that we both will find the right girls...because we deserve it and I 100% believe that with everything. So this is my encouragement to you my fellow brothers, my fellow men...single or in a relationship...because I know people in relationships who aren't necessarily happy...be patient...there is a girl out there for you. Whether you're struggling to ask a girl out or going out with many girls wondering why and what the point is and you're feeling an emptiness...know that there is a girl out there for you. But mainly for you...my brothers...who share the same sentiments as my friend and I...you've been patient...it's eating at you...you get real antsy at times...jealous even of the things and that happiness of the people around you...this is my encouragement for you...to keep your head up...to most importantly be yourself, to not change yourself to get some girl to like you or go out with you, it's not worth it. For all my fellow shy and nervous dudes out there, I'm with you...I don't got no game myself lol...I go with the flow...I'm here for you...I'm praying for you and I believe in you. It's hard man...it's gonna take time...but she's out there...I promise. The reason I'm so positive and I'm so hopeful is because I know for a FACT that there is a girl out there for me...whether I have already met her or have yet to meet her...I know God has placed a girl that will compliment me and love me for who I am, flaws and all...so I hope my positivity and my hopefulness can serve as encouragement for you guys feeling similar to me. Keep your head up brothers.
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