Be Proactive, Take Initiative...

I guess just branching off from the whole growing apart from friends. One thing that annoys me is when people see a problem or complain about a problem, but don't do anything about it. They see everything that's wrong, they always talk about it, they give their input and suggestions, but they never actually do anything about it. One example is friends growing apart...it's natural in our culture to be lazy and expect and hope the other person to do it...but it's like, you see us growing apart, you notice things aren't the same, yet you don't say or do anything, you just keep it to yourself. Another example is church...a lot of people see a lot of problems in church, but don't acknowledge it, instead they wanna complain and say oh well it's their fault, blah blah...I'm gonna go to another church where they don't have these kinds of problems, things like that. I feel like it's the natural thing to just run away or sweep all your problems under the carpet. I dunno...mad tangent right now, but I also hate in our culture that the guy is expected the make the first move. To some degree I agree with it, but some girls expect the guy to do everything...are you dumb? I know that was completely off topic lol...but yeah...we're always taught to take initiative. Like if you're in a big crowd and you see someone getting mugged or bullied...if everyone had the mentality of oh don't worry someone else will step up...nothing would ever get done and no one would ever help each other.